Spicing up your sex life but need a little push? Here are six ways beginners can start exploring their kinky side:

Educate yourself

Before jumping into anything, take some time to research the different kinks and fetishes that interest you. This will help you to understand your desires and what you are comfortable with.

Attend events

Attend local events or munches, which are informal gatherings of people in the kink community. Socializing and meeting like-minded people, and learning more about different kinks in a safe and supportive environment will ease the descent into the “sinful” life.

Online resources

There are many online communities and resources available for those interested in getting kinkier. Joining online forums or chat groups are great ways to connect with others who share your interests.

Experiment with BDSM

BDSM is an umbrella term that covers a range of different activities, from bondage and discipline to dominance and submission. Experimenting with BDSM sure is a great way to explore your kinky side in a safe and consensual way.

Set boundaries

I should not even be saying that: Set clear boundaries for yourself and your partner(s) before engaging in any kinky activities. Make sure you have a “safeword” and are able to communicate your limits. Good examples of safe words are colors: red, yellow, and green. Call it the stoplight and set the pace using these: Red for a stop, Yellow for a slowdown, and Green, of course for more.

Try new things:

Don't be shy to try new things and step outside of your comfort zone. Just make sure you are in a safe environment and everything is done in a consensual way.

Remember, it’s a personal journey, take things at your own pace and only engage in the activities you are comfortable with. Proceed with caution and prioritize your safety and consent.